I don't just teach
healing, I've lived it.

Hi, I’m Linda Kaye - also known as The Boundaries Queen.

For most of my life, I was everyone’s emotional anchor. I loved deeply, gave endlessly, and lost myself in relationships that felt like home - even when they hurt.

My nervous system was wired for survival, not safety. And until I learned how to calm my body, rebuild my self-trust, and set boundaries that honored me - no amount of mindset work or therapy could fill the void.

After four divorces, countless heartbreaks, and a lifetime of people-pleasing, I finally had to face the truth: I wasn’t unlucky in love - I was unhealed.

That’s when everything changed. Not just my relationships, but the way I lived, breathed, and connected with myself.

Now, I help men and women around the world do the same - to heal their nervous system, break generational patterns, and finally create love that feels safe, peaceful, and aligned.

The Boundaries Queen

My mission is simple

to help you come home to yourself.

So many of us have been conditioned to think our way out of pain - to analyze, justify, or “understand” why we end up in the same cycles. 

But true healing doesn’t happen in your mind. 

It happens when your body finally believes it’s safe.

My mission is to bridge emotional healing with nervous system science - helping you stop chasing love from a dysregulated state, and start attracting it from a grounded one.

Because when you feel safe in your body:

You stop confusing anxiety for chemistry.

You stop mistaking control for connection.

You stop settling for love that drains you.

At The Boundaries Queen, we don’t just talk about boundaries - we embody them. We teach you to hold your energy, speak your truth, and still stay open to love.

This is not about building walls. It’s about rebuilding you - from the inside out.

My Mission

To guide men and women through heartbreak recovery, nervous system regulation, and emotional rewiring so they can create conscious, fulfilling relationships rooted in self-trust and safety.

This isn't therapy. It's transformation.

There are endless courses out there promising “healing” and “self-love.” But most only scratch the surface.
  They give you affirmations without the embodiment to back them up.

The Boundaries Queen was created for people who are done with surface-level healing.

People who’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, maybe even gone to therapy - but still find themselves anxious in love, unable to relax, or replaying the same patterns.

This work goes deeper - right into your nervous system, the place where your emotional patterns live.

Through a blend of:

Nervous System Regulation

Calming your body’s survival responses

NLP & Emotional Rewiring

Shifting the subconscious programs that drive your choices

Somatic Healing Practices

Releasing stored trauma and emotional loops

Embodied Self-Trust

learning to make choices from inner safety

This isn’t about intellectual understanding - it’s about rewriting how your body experiences love and safety.

And that’s what makes the transformation last.

We don’t heal by learning more.  We heal by feeling safe enough to feel what we’ve been running from.

Linda Kaye

Credentials can be earned.
Wisdom is lived.

I hold certifications in:

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
Somatic & Nervous System Regulation
Trauma-Informed Coaching

…but my deepest training didn’t come from textbooks.

It came from life itself.

From rebuilding after four divorces.
From learning how to hold myself through panic instead of abandoning myself.
From discovering what it means to create love that’s peaceful, not performative.

Every framework I teach has been lived - tested through my own healing and proven through hundreds of clients who’ve rebuilt their relationships with themselves and others.

Healing is my work  

but joy is my practice.

When I’m not leading workshops or holding space for clients, you’ll find me living the calm I once craved - journaling with my morning tea, dancing barefoot in my living room, or walking my rescue dog at sunset.

I’m obsessed with slow mornings, deep conversations, and the quiet strength that comes from choosing peace over pressure.

I believe healing doesn’t mean life becomes perfect - it means you finally feel safe enough to live it fully. To laugh deeply. To love gently. To rest.

Because that’s the point of all this work - to come back home to the version of yourself that doesn’t need to hustle for worthiness anymore.

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Memoirs & Psychology

Tea Lover

Pour-over enthusiast

Batman & Benji

Devoted to rescue pups and care

Nature Walker

Daily grounding practice

What Women Are Saying

Real stories from women who've done the work and transformed their
relationships with themselves and others.

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"Linda helped me see that my 'anxiety' in relationships wasn't intuition — it was my nervous system stuck in survival mode. For the first time, I understand why I kept choosing emotionally unavailable partners. This work changed everything."

Sarah M.

Marketing Director

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"I spent years in therapy talking about my patterns but never actually changing them. Linda's somatic approach helped me rewire at a body level. I finally trust myself to set boundaries without guilt."

Jessica R.

Entrepreneur

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"Linda doesn't sugarcoat things, but she also doesn't shame you. She helped me see my codependency with compassion while giving me practical tools to actually change. I'm in the healthiest relationship of my life — with myself."

Amanda K.

Teacher

If you're ready to begin
your own reset...

You don't have to keep repeating the same patterns. You don't have to figure this out alone. And you definitely don't have to wait until you hit rock bottom to start healing.

PERFECT FOR BEGINNERS

The Relationship  

Reset Workshop

A 90-minute deep dive into why you keep choosing the same type of partner and how to break the cycle. Learn the nervous system science behind your patterns and walk away with practical tools you can use immediately.